You're Not Finished Yet

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book-cover.jpgDr. Raymond E. Moody, Jr. states: "Karen E. Herrick is a new breed of therapist who is dealing with a vast range of experiences, which have enormous impact on people's lives.  It has been his experience that people who have Spiritual Experiences ( SEs) often tell him that neither doctors nor ministers have been able to help them understand these experiences. Karen's book does just that."

Karen was born premature. Her mother said she was "not finished" because she had no eyebrows, fingernails or toenails.  Thus, the title of her recently published book "You're Not Finished Yet" (ISBN# 978-9769404-9-4) has personal meaning.  

The book begins with a chapter on alcoholism. It ends with two chapters on developing spiritual language by naming different spiritual experiences, understanding them and our purpose in life and in death.  In between, are four chapters more giving information ranging from exploring the characteristics, roles and personality traits one develops in a dysfunctional family, which manifests in anger and the need for drama in one's life.  There are facts about parenting skills, values and class differences that cause disconnection within families.

The unconscious is explained with a story about what her youngest grandson told her a few years ago.  "It's not the unconscious, Grandma, it's the subconscious."  When she asked him how he knew about the subconscious, he went on to explain, "Oh, I learned about it in my Calvin & Hobbes book.  It's scary down there, you need a flashlight to see and all this old stuff is piled up.  People don't like going down there."

Whichever you choose to call it, the book explains some Jungian concepts about how our unconscious affects us in childhood and this chapter ends with "Rules for Therapy and Life."

Chapter 5 explains "What About The People Who Really 'Won't."  Part of a poem that Karen authored during her PhD work with Dr. Raymond E. Moody, Jr., helps us to understand why they "won't"....

"There's a breakdown in relationship at 16-30 months
Their ship is anchored at preverbal
Their pattern is a repeating compulsion of
A dump that's full of refuse (the unconscious)

And, piles and piles keep building up
Around the house to show
Their sewer will be anywhere
To tell Mama, I say, 'NO!'

This power struggle is constant
Now, it matters not who's there
To oppose gives INTERNAL CONTROL!
Any attention winds around their wound

They are the King and Queen of self-contradictions
Their workloads are unassailable
They choose procrastination, pretense, hypocrisy and
Leave us no reward for being so tenacious..."  (p. 66)


The mind/body connection is described in Karen's flashback of a personal incest memory, which was triggered by her chiropractor finally repairing one side of her neck so she could turn it completely to the left.  She continues to explain that many times people who have experienced trauma in childhood learn how to dissociate, which gives them the ability to have SEs easier in adulthood.

One of these types of SEs is a meaningful "Radio Synchronistic Event, which some therapists might call an "idea of reference," - a symptom that schizophrenics exhibit in mental hospitals.  This is one of the lines that will have to be established between psychological definitions and the paranormal as therapists and clients name different types of SEs.

An acquaintance who had just recovered from cancer tells how she was having a bad day and was in her car asking God the "Why did this have to happen to me?" question, when she turned on her radio to hear, "When will you believe in me as much as I believe in you?"  She knew these words were meant for her as an answer to her question."  (p. 95)

Karen finds that in discussing spirituality with her clients she has been told many "weird" SEs.  One such person was Pat Thoms. This is how Pat's book, "Signs of Life," (ISBN 0-9744744-7-9) came to be.  

In explaining how "It's All Consciousness" (p. 124), Karen aid's therapists, clients and lay people to understand angelic experiences, "Praying to Ancestors", and the difference between what is paranormal and what is spiritual.  This book has many headings. It is designed to be read from one to three pages at a time to teach the concept of each heading.

Karen has shared her clinical expertise for the past twenty+ years in her private practice in Red Bank by lecturing throughout the US on dysfunctional homes, grief, loss and dissociation.  She is actively involved in her PhD work researching, writing and speaking on Spiritual Psychology especially since she has discovered that only 33% of the professionals she surveyed believed in the ability to recognize the difference between spiritual and psychotic experiences.


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